Hey, I’m Kylee — and like you, I know what it feels like when the world says you’re "too much" or "not enough". I grew up trying to fit into boxes that crushed the real me.
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I spent decades following rules that were never mine. I left a high demand religious cult at 36, came out as Pansexual at 37, started divorce proceedings at 38, discovered I was neurodivergent at 39, and only then did I finally realize: I had been surviving someone else’s life. The real me was buried under years of performance and perfectionism—but she was still there, waiting.
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Deconstruction became my lifeline.
​It was the radical act of saying, “Maybe everything I was taught isn’t the truth I want to keep.” And then coming home to my voice, my body, and the fierce truth whispering underneath the expectations.
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Over the years, my own journey unfolded messily—marked by unlearning, reclaiming, and relentless truth-telling. That journey became Transformed Connections: a space to do the same work we’re doing here—real, embodied, undiluted healing.
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These days? I show up exactly as I am—chaotic, tender-righteous, tenderly revolutionary—because I want you to feel safe doing the same.
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So, where did deconstruction lead me?
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To affirming that you’re already whole—never broken.
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To knowing that healing feels nothing like “fixed.” It feels like coming home.
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To trusting that what liberates isn’t control, but turning toward the truth you’ve always carried.
Today, I get to hold that space for people who are committed to coming back to themselves. Who are done performing and ready to start becoming.
This is my story. It’s yours too, if you’ve ever felt on the outside trying to find your way in. And it gets better from here.