
Before we dive in, let’s just get this out of the way: I’m not fearless.
Never have been.
I overthink. I spiral. I get tangled up in “what-ifs” like the rest of us. But instead of sweaty palms or a racing heart, it hits me like a fog. I freeze. I stall out. My brain short-circuits and suddenly, I can’t problem-solve my way out of a paper bag.
No clarity. No magic. Just stuck.
But still—Do it scared.

Not when you feel ready.
Not once you’ve figured it all out.
But now. As you are. While your voice shakes and your gut clenches and your brain screams, “What the actual fuck are you doing?”
Because the truth is: courage isn’t about being unafraid. It’s about moving forward with fear sitting shotgun.
This blog series is a collection of stories and soul truths that have scared the hell out of me—moments when I had every reason to play it safe, but chose to leap anyway. We’ll talk about raising a transgender child. Dating after divorce. Leaving what wasn’t working. Redefining family. Exploring non-monogamy. Building a life that actually feels like mine.
Each post will land monthly, tied to the rhythm of the year—sometimes directly, sometimes in beautiful rebellion. Because if we’re gonna grow, we might as well do it seasonally, right?
What to Expect in This Series:
Raw honesty, no sugarcoating
Deep dives into parenting, identity, relationships, and healing
Humor, heartache, and proba- ok fine, more than a few f-bombs
A reminder that you are not alone—even when it feels like it
Permission to feel messy, brave, and wildly human
Ready? Let’s go.
Because you’re going to do the work with me.
Reflection Prompt:
What’s something in your life right now that you feel called to do… even if it scares the shit out of you?
Write it down. Whisper it out loud. Tell a friend.
And maybe—just maybe—start.
Enjoy, and let me know your key takeaway!
Be strong. Do it scared. 💜
